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I’ve found that when I go alone to something that I really want to do or that truly matches my interests (Neko Case talking about her new book to Kathy Valentine, mudlarking along the Thames, as two recent examples), I make friends on location. After mudlarking, I went for tea with two new friends.

I prefer doing some things alone as I get older. Plus, I frequently get a better seat—or a seat at all—by being a “party of one.” I royally pissed off large groups of foodies at a popular breakfast joint in Nashville by being the only person who could fit at a single open seat at the bar. I sailed by them grinning, much like Harriet’s friend Janie.

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"just because I take immense enjoyment from my alone time that I don’t also fully believe in together time" I loved this newsletter <3

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Yes! I too love sitting at the bar! I've had great!!!! conversations with bartenders and, yes, often there's room for one even at harder to get in places. I also invite rather last minute and it's always fantastic!

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I never every knew about Metrograph. THANK YOU!

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They always have great stuff.

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Hey Glynnis you can strike up a conversation with me at the post office. But given the theme of your book I don't think my wife would like it : )

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