The pressure to have a party on "milestone" birthdays makes the birthday not fun. I haven't had a birthday party since I was in middle school, and I've never missed it! When I have a "big" birthday, I take a trip to somewhere I really want to go. For my last birthday, I went to Quebec with my partner. No organizing, no planning, just plane fare, a hotel, and a carry-on. Once there, you get to do anything you want to do without worrying about anyone else's schedule.
To the woman who had a miscarriage - you have my heart. I know that loss too well. People in our society (I mean men, but some mean women, too) have no capacity to deal with that loss. The loss of a promised future of a baby & a family. I know it is extremely difficult to keep living every day. You have my blessing to rant, rant, and take a long bath. Whatever order. ♥️
Absolutely love this and feel it is a crucial stress valve! Thank you!
The pressure to have a party on "milestone" birthdays makes the birthday not fun. I haven't had a birthday party since I was in middle school, and I've never missed it! When I have a "big" birthday, I take a trip to somewhere I really want to go. For my last birthday, I went to Quebec with my partner. No organizing, no planning, just plane fare, a hotel, and a carry-on. Once there, you get to do anything you want to do without worrying about anyone else's schedule.
Are you still taking complaints? Because now I am on fire.
To the woman who had a miscarriage - you have my heart. I know that loss too well. People in our society (I mean men, but some mean women, too) have no capacity to deal with that loss. The loss of a promised future of a baby & a family. I know it is extremely difficult to keep living every day. You have my blessing to rant, rant, and take a long bath. Whatever order. ♥️
Thank you for this service!
Brilliant.
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